My Dog Is Reactive—Now What?

Reactivity can feel overwhelming. Lunging, barking, growling, spinning—it’s easy to feel embarrassed, frustrated, or even hopeless. But here’s the truth: reactivity is not the end of the story.

Most reactive dogs aren’t trying to be “bad.” They’re struggling to regulate themselves. Reactivity is usually a symptom of something deeper: fear, frustration, anxiety, or over-arousal. The good news? Those things can be worked on. Reactivity can be managed. Your dog can get better.

Here’s where to start:

1. Stop walking into chaos.The biggest mistake I see is walking straight toward distractions your dog isn’t ready for. Cross the street. Turn around. Move behind a car. Giving your dog space isn’t avoiding the problem—it’s setting them up to succeed.

2. Build engagement at home.If your dog won’t pay attention in your living room, they won’t do it in the park. Practice leash pressure, “eyes,” place work, and engagement drills where your dog feels safe and clear.

3. Learn to read their body language.Watch for stiff posture, weight shifts, excessive scanning, or freezing. These early signals tell you your dog is building tension long before the explosion.

4. Use the right tools.Slip leads, long lines, prongs, e-collars—every dog is different. Tools won’t “fix” reactivity, but they help give you control and the ability to guide your dog back to regulation. Just make sure you’re using them correctly and fairly.

5. Reward the right choices.Don’t wait for perfection. Reward your dog for checking in, moving with you, or even just choosing not to explode. These are the building blocks of real progress.

Reactivity isn’t a label—it’s a challenge. One you and your dog can work through, together.

Your dog is not broken. They just need clarity, structure, and time to learn a new way to respond.

And if that’s what you’re looking for? You’re in the right place.